Cody Holmes
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How to Care for Russian Dwarf Hamsters
The first thing you need to know is that Russian dwarf hamsters have very bad eyesight, even worse than other dwarf hamsters. It's so important you get them used to the sound of your voice right from the very beginning, however, I didn’t because I was unaware of their eyesight problems and I had to work even harder to get my hamster to trust me after months of him being frightened. Once your hamster knows your voice, they will begin to build that trust with you, especially if you speak to them in a soft voice when feeding them and handing them treats.
By Cody Holmes6 years ago in Petlife
How to Discuss Your Inner Bedroom Desires
I know it can be embarrassing or awkward to speak to your partner about what you do and don't want in the bedroom, but if you don't you're never going to get your perfect version of sex. I have been with my partner for nearly two years, although we actually slept together four years ago, it's quite a funny story but that's not the point here. When I slept with Charlie four years ago it was awful, granted I took his virginity so it was understandable, but it wasn't great and really awkward. When we got together in 2016, I was nervous it was going to still be something I wanted to be over, but I was pleasantly surprised. However, it wasn't for at least nine months that we really started to relax and show each other what we wanted in the bedroom. See, I realised that I like it a little rough, so does he and we actually figured that out organically by body language, but it was the communication afterwards that helped us both realise that we were willing to try something a little more rough. Through that communication it went from grabbing and biting each other's lips quite hard, to a hand around the neck, then we decided to try handcuffs and so on and so forth. So a way you could bring up the subject without dropping it right in a conversation would be after you've finished having sex and your lying there in bed, say how good it was and give them a kiss, then suggest maybe next time you could try either a certain position or more kissing or less kissing; it's really what you want. Obviously, I mean only bring it up when you're truly comfortable, it shouldn't be difficult and awkward and if it is then maybe your just not there yet and you need to wait a little longer until your comfortable enough to discuss it. I never want to make my man feel bad about anything in the bedroom because even if it had never changed I'd still be happy, however, it does create a new sense of intimacy when you can share your wants and desires in the bedroom.
By Cody Holmes6 years ago in Filthy